The aim of the study on the basis of which this article is written was to examine, from the patients’ perspective, the role music plays as a coping method when facing cancer. Here, using music as a coping method refers to using music (listening to and/or playing music individually or participating in a music therapy program) frequently in order to deal with the significant demands presented by cancer. A semi-structured interview with 17 cancer patients who have used music (listened to or played music) in order to cope with their illness was applied. Five of interviewees were men and twelve women. The youngest informant was 24 and the oldest 73 years old. In the paper presented in this conference I will discuss the result of my study concerning the effects of hard and heavy music in coping with cancer. The result of study shows that hard and heavy music as a coping method:

- by calling in question the cultural demands of having control over their feelings, helps the young cancer patients to obtain their control,

- by questioning what are conventionally defined as meaning of life, helps the young cancer patients to find a meaning,

- by calling in question  the cultural requests of being calm and collected helps the young cancer patients to get their tranquility,  

- by cheering unhealthy behaviors like using drug and having violent sex helps the young cancer patients to recover their mental health.

All this due to the possibility the heavy and hard music provides for the young cancer patients to get self-confidence by putting away the false mask one wear and be who she/he really is.